Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Family and Friends

Wow. Life is great! We have seen so many miracles in our district I can't believe it. Our area a couple of weeks ago was the strongest in the district and now we are struggling a little bit. But it's great to see the success of everyone else around us. I interviewed so many people for baptism. As District Leader that's a great responsibility. It's awesome to interview all of the souls that are preparing to be baptized and make sure they are ready to do so. It's amazing. Monday night I interviewed Margaret Kanu and her daughter Maryamma and her son Samuel. After the interviews Maryamma asked if I could baptize her! Which was awesome. The baptismal service was absolutely great. And I really felt the spirit. I wish I could upload pictures to my email and show you the Kanu family, but these computers don't allow me too :( Bummer!
On Friday night I interviewed another two candidates for baptism. Harlee and Catherine are 11 and 12 and will be baptized next weekend. They are ready as well! And it will be awesome to see them progress. I hope they remember the covenants they will make. And then Saturday before the baptism I interviewed one of the zone leaders investigators named Kerlin. He is super funny and I am pretty sure he is 9. He stole something the other day and so in the interview I asked Kerlin if he had committed a serious crime. He told me no. I then said Kerlin, you've never stolen something? And he said no. I then said Kerlin you didn't steal anything in the last couple of days and he finally admitted that he stole some chips from gas station down the street and that he was now banned from going there. It was really! But he has since repented and is good to go for his baptism. After the baptism of the Kanu family on Saturday I interviewed another missionaries set of investigators who will be baptized next week. Kevin is aound 35 and has a daughter who is 8. And Kevin is probably the most prepared person for baptism that I have ever seen. He told me that he has a chronic pain syndrome where he is constantly in pain. he was switching between medicines about 6 years and nothing was working, so he finally decided to end his life. In the process, two missionaries knocked on his door and saved his life without there knowing. And now 6 years later he has finally accepted the gospel and is going to be baptized next week. He is a great man and will be baptized next week.
Our district has seen so many miracles! Our goal for April is 5 baptisms, and 4 were baptized Saturday and 4 more will be baptized on the 26th. What a miracle!
Elder Standage and I continue to work hard. We are looking to set some dates with investigators this upcoming week for may! I love you all! Stay close to the Lord. And I hope you had a good Easter!
Love always,
Elder Caleb James Wardle

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Hello everyone! This week has been great! We got some investigators out to church which was awesome. Overall things have been really great!
We taught a few lessons this week and also got to go on exchanges with our zone leaders. I went with Elder Bates. We went to go see a man named Brian who we have been teaching for sometime now and have been trying to get him out to church. The lesson was interesting. His gf was there and she talked our ears off and didn't let us do any teaching. But eventually we just kind of ignored her and focused on Brian. We asked a ton of questions and he truly trusts us, so it became a matter of does he trust us enough to come to church? Because he knows that our whole purpose is to get him as close to God as we possibly can. So he said he would come and there was no way he was missing. So that was great. We also taught an investigator named Comfort and her family and we invited them all out to church. Comfort did great there. She brought her daughter Dora who is preganant and her two other kids named Lisa (6) and Calvin(8). They seemed to love it. They had to leave out of the third hour though because Comfort had to work. but it was great for her to come. She got there and then all the Liberian women took her off and then we didn't see her again until she left and she said that she loved it! So we were very happy about that. Brian didn't make it though. he doesn't have a car and so his friend who was going to drive him to church bailed out on him at the last second. That was a bummer. He was really stoked to come too! We were also planning on having another investigator named Max there as well. He is great. Although we haven't seen hi since the first lesson we had with him. We really need to reach out to him again. Hopefully things are going well for him.
We had district meeting on Saturday. IT went really really well! We set some goals for baptisms in the district. We currently have 8 baptisms scheduled for
April and our goal is 5! I have some interviews to do this week which I am really excited about! I have never done one before. Hopefully those go well. At District meeting Elder Zabriskie gave us a training on revelation through the Book of Mormon. He said that likening the scriptures is the bridge we make between testimony and conversion. We can all have a testimony of the book of Mormon or of Joseph Smith but until we liken the words we read and do what the scriptures say, then we will never be converted to them. We want truly hunger after them! Anyways, I just thought that was great!
I love you all! Elder Standage and I are doing graet and we are looking forward to a lot of miracles this week. We want to work harder and
I think this week is the week to do it. I love you! And you are in my prayers!
Love always,
Elder Caleb James Wardle

Conference

Hello Hello Hello :)
This week was amazing. We saw many miracles. I can't believe that Elder Standage and I have all ready been together for more than a week. It's pretty crazy to think about. we have been doing some great work. We got 3 new investigators this week which was awesome. And two of them came from knocking doors. It's really kind of interesting to see how the Lord works sometimes. Elder Standage and I have only knocked on a few doors since we have been together, but the majority of the people we have talked with have been receptive. So it's been really cool.
Elder Standage is absolutely great. I think the thing I like about being a missionary is that I am still allowed to be myself. I don't have to be some robot that preaches the restored gospel. I was sent to the specific areas on my mission that I am in because my personality and Spirit are needed hear. And we are placed with certain companions because we are needed. And I feel that way with Elder Standage. We have been having a blast and we really push each other to work hard while it happens. It's awesome. We have developed a good sense of "whistling while you work" and it really pays off when things don't go well. But ultimately we are just extremely blessed for all that has been happening.
General Conference was absolutely amazing. I felt the spirit so strongly. I'm really grateful to have a living day prophet. Someone who can lead and guide us. It's an amazing thing.
The Des Moines District is doing great! When I first got hear we had o baptismal dates in the whole zone... and as of now we our zone has the most dates in the whole mission and our district has 12 dates. 10 of which are for April. So we are all working very hard and it's remarkable to see the progress of the missionaries that are here. I don't accredit the fact that we now have 12 dates in the District to the fact that I was called as District Leader (especially because I haven't don't much) but I am proud of all the missionaries and the work they are doing.
On Mormon.org there is a new video of Elaine Bradley who is the drummer for the Neon Trees which is my favorite band. So I was absolutely stoked about that! You should all check it out.
Well I love you all. Please stay safe and warm.
Love always,
Elder Wardle

Monday, March 31, 2014

Transfer Week

Hello,
This week went great! I have a brand new companion named Elder Standage. He is from Mesa AZ. And he loves to skateboard and he is super funny. He is 22 and has been a little worried about how old he will be when he gets home. But he is a champ and we will see miracles. Elder Flint is now home and I hope he is doing well. This week mainly consisted of Elder Flint packing. Then Thursday we woke up really early so that I could get to the new trainers meeting in Iowa city before transfer meeting. We woke up around 5. Which was rough since I have been exhausted my entire mission. 
Thursday night we drove home and got Elder Standage settled in. He has been so tired since he got here. The MTC Is exhausting and on Wednesday thy woke up at 1 in the morning to catch their flight out here. So he has been pretty drained. But he is doing better. On Friday we had a few lessons. One was with Curtis Cochrun and Elder Standage enjoyed that. Then we had a lesson with Sunday, an investigator who has been meeting with us for a long time and wants to be baptized but can't because he has been going to a Catholic church that funds his tuition at the Catholic school he goes too. But he is a great kid. On Thursday night we had a lesson with Brian and his girlfriend was there as well. his girlfriend talked the entire time so we didn't get any teaching in. Which was sad because we were planning on setting a baptismal date. It was the most interesting lesson I have ever been in to say the least. They just kind of awkwardly argued and talked over us the entire time. It was interesting. Anyways, Friday was great.
On Saturday I conducted my first district meeting ever which was pretty nerve racking. But it was great to train missionaries on how to more fully fulfill their purpose. I talked about starting fresh and starting a brand new transfer and how we can better ourselves and become even more committed to helping others come to Christ. So that was great. It went well.
After District meeting though, we saw miracles! We had scheduled to meet with our recent convert Andrew from 4 to 5. But District meeting ran a little bit over so we were going to be late. And we had a dinner appointment at 5. So we were debating whether it was even worth going. But the Spirit told us that we needed to stop by and see how he was doing. On the way to our appointment, the members we were supposed to have dinner with cancelled so we thought that was perfect. We went to see Andrew and he had told us on Thursday that he sent a letter to his mother and father that day explaining about his baptism and about his decision to go on a mission and to go to byui as well. Well we got there around 4:15 and the talked a little bit. He said that he had listened to a few talks the night before and read his scriptures and He said that he had never felt the Spirit more. Well, we were there for about 15 minutes... and his parents called. And he talked to them for about a half hour. They were so upset and so angry. And I won't share all the details but Andrew was a champ. He just said Mom and Dad I know what I have felt, It's all ready done and I am gong to do what I know is right. It's happening. It was the craziest lesson I have ever been in! Andrew's last words to his family were I love you, and then without a response they hung up the phone and he dropped his phone in his lap and just started balling. I started crying and Elder Standage just looked like a deer in the headlights because it was his 2nd full day... Andrew cried for about 10 minutes and we just sat in silent. He looked at me and said I need a hug. And he gave me the best hug I have ever had. (Besides hugs from family of course) We shared our testimonies with him and then read a chapter in the book of Mormon. I have never felt the spirit more in my life. It's amazing what the book of Mormon. Anyways, after the lesson we said the biggest prayer of gratitude and called a few members of the ward to ask them to call Andrew. Our ward mission leader brought Andrew over to his house and they watched a basketball game together. Brother Poole also gave Andrew a blessing.
Moral of the story. It was absolutely a MIRACLE that we were with Andrew during that. And our appointment even cancelled so we could stay with him longer! The Lord just guided us and then cleared the way! It was absolutely amazing! I'm so grateful for the Lord's guidance. I am grateful for Andrew.
On Sunday we taught a lesson to an African man named Oliver and he accepted the invitation to be baptized. We then met an awesome guy at church named Max who we will be teaching Wednesday.
Miracles are happening! IT's great!
Well, I love you! Please pray for these people. Sorry this email was so long!
Love always,
Elder Caleb James Wardle
 

Monday, March 24, 2014

Transfers

Hey everybody! This week was another great one! we got a lot done and we got a new investigator! So that was awesome!  His name is Brian. He is a super humble guy. On Tuesday, which was the first lesson we had with him, he told us about all of the things he has going on in his life. He just lost his job, he smokes, drinks, lives in a terrible house with his girlfriend and just isn't very capable. He has really been crying out for help. He told us of an experience where he woke up at midnight one night and just was overwhelmed with everything that was going on. He said he got up and got out his bible and just read for hours. His girlfriend woke up around 8 in the morning and she went to help her father with something. So he had the house to himself. So Brian said that he just got down on his knees and prayed to heavenly Father all day. It was an awesome story. And he has so much faith. So, we whipped out our scriptures and read about Enos with him. And he really liked the connection between him and a prophet. He thought that was cool. We shared the message of the restoration with him and then invited him to be baptized. And he accepted. We came back on Thursday and in the middle of the lesson he said, you know guys now that I think about I have never been baptized, so if you want me to come to church on Sunday so that I can do that I would be happy too. Well, we dodged that bullet by changing the subject. After we left the lesson we were really concerned he would come to church with the expectation that he would be baptized that day. Obviously he has some addictions and things that he needs to get over before he can do that. So maybe with Brain we will have to drag him away from the baptismal font rather than to it. So it will be really interesting to see where this all goes! Anyways, it was great to meet Brian. Something came up so he couldn't get to church. That was almost a blessing. It could have been a potentially really awkward situation.
Well, we got our transfer calls today. I will training a brand new missionary and was called to be the district leader here in Des Moines. So hopefully I can live up to both of those callings! Training a new missionary will be a lot different than the first time because this time I know the area and know what's going on. And there are plenty of people and plenty of work to do. So that will be great! it should be a great couple of transfers. I love Des Moines!
Anyways, that's all the news.
I love you all so much!
Love always,
Elder Caleb James Wardle

Happy St Pattys Day!!!

This week was pretty good as always! We saw Andrew a couple of times because his parents came to pick him for Spring Break and take him back home for a week. And he is planning on telling his parents that he got baptized after he gets back from spring break in a letter. He wanted to see them one last time and get some of his belongings just in case they kick him out for good. He is a great guy and has so much faith. I hope everything goes well, and I have faith that the Lord knows the master plan. He knows the way things need to go so that Andrew can grow. And so that his family can as well. So continue to pray for him. He needs as many prayers as he can get.
This week we also had an opportunity to hear from Brother McConkie of the General Sunday School Presidency. He came to have a fireside with the Des Moines stake, but he had some of the missionaries around Des Moines come for a special meeting as well. It was awesome to be a part of that and to shake his hand! He told us a lot. He started off by having us think about the teachers that have had the biggest impact in our lives and I thought a lot about Brother Carter, my Priests quorum adviser, and the Carrs who taught me in Sunday school. And I have realized more and more why they had such an impact on my life. And I truly believe it is because they just loved what they did, and more importantly they loved me. They had a genuine concern for me, and how I was doing. And that was the most important thing I saw in them. I didn't dread going to those classes because I knew that I was loved and needed and wanted. That was a big change in my spiritual progression as a youth. And I owe a lot to them for just loving me. And I have been realizing that we cannot do this work without loving those we teach. We can't do it. If the love isn't there, if they can't see how much we care, then they won't want to make the commitment. They won't be drawn to us. We will just be missionaries or home teachers or visiting teachers rather than friends who are generally concerned for them. The love has to be there. And it's something I have been lacking a little bit I think. I hope I can gain more love for those I work with and for the Savior.
Brother McConkie also talked about asking the questions that will make people think. Instead of asking what is faith, maybe ask when is a time you have exercised faith? Or how has your faith helped you in your life? Rather than asking someone to recite knowledge that they know, we need to ask them to recite experiences to us, we need to get them to speak from their hearts. Questions are everything. And it's amazing!
Well, I love you all! Thanks for everything that you have given me. For your time and efforts and for your testimonies. Please never forget the Savior. He is everything. Love those you interact with. And please pray like your life depends on it. Because it does!
Love Always,
Elder Wardle

March 10, 2014

This week was another great one. We had a great district meeting and I had the opportunity to train on Developing Christlike attributes. Specifically humility and patience. And it was great to be able to study those topics a little bit more. My mission has truly opened my eyes to a lot of things. I think the main thing is that my thoughts have turned from secular things to things that actually matter and will help me eternally progress. It's amazing to see the difference in my life and the amount of happiness that focusing on the savior can bring. I have been focusing on repentance as well. And repenting daily. And it has really brought the spirit into my life. I encourage you all to repent daily. And to really focus on the blessings that the Savior has given you. Each day we can look for the hand of the lord. And we can truly feel his magnitude if we just look for the blessings he gives us daily. I know that the Lord loves us.
This week we visited a few people. Andrew is doing well. He has a friend who recently became a Christian and he has had a few questions about the church and what we believe. We were able to meet him and talk with him about the gospel. He had a lot of questions. Somewhat Anti arguments as well. But we were able to expound on all of his questions. And we really played "Defense" during the whole discussion. We came back to see Andrew the next day after we talked to his friend because we didn't get to talk to Andrew too much. But when we cam back the next day his friend was there again and we talked with him again. So he is obviously pretty interested. We tried to explain to him that we know these things because we have a testimony of the book of Mormon. And he thought we were putting just a little too much trust in the Book of Mormon. But we put trust in the testimony that we have received from Heavenly Father that the Book of Mormon is true. So really we are just trusting Heavenly Father. Anyways, it was a real testimony builder to talk with his friend. Andrew did a good job testifying as well.
Anyways, this week was great. I love you all! And I hope you are doing well.
Love,
Elder Wardle